Why Good Girls Go for the Bad Boys.

First of all, this is not 100 percent certain. There still others who prefer the laid-back, mellow type ordinary and run-of-the-mill kind of guy… or girl. But there is a vast majority of girls among us who, whether they admit it or not do fall for the bad boy or the bad girl and this article is about that.

Here are some reasons why girls go for the bad boys:

           1.       Good Girls they think they can change them.

Or better yet, they think they can make the Bad Boy want to change for them. Most Girls think that it is rewarding for them knowing that she is the one girl worthy enough to turn him straight… at least they think it would feel great, if it ever actually happened. Many good women see themselves as “fixers”. They want to fix their bad boy. They believe the “victim stories” these men have told them about why they’re broken, and these good women believe that with enough love and compassion they can help him change. What they don’t realize is that these “victim stories” can be a way for these men to deny responsibility for their bad behavior.

            2.       Good girls are tired of being good.

The Good Girls spent their entire lives doing the right thing, being smart, being responsible.

In high school, the Good Girl handed in her homework on time. She never failed a test. She didn’t ditch class to smoke pot in the bathroom. She was a model student. But now that she’s older, she still plays by the rules. Her boss loves her, because she’s determined and dedicated and efficient. She does whatever she’s asked to do and never causes a stir.

That should make her proud, but honestly, sometimes it just gets boring.

She’s sick of always listening to her head over her heart. Of doing what will pay off in the long run instead of enjoying the moment. Of sticking to a predictable routine.

3.       Bad Boys Seem Sexier

Usually bad boys are better looking or at least they exhibit a certain level of swag, and who doesn’t love a little eye candy? Tattoos and leather jackets, yes please! Of course, there’s something sexy about a guy that all the other women want… until he wants to be with all of them, too.

4.       Bad Boys Bring out the Appetite for Adventure

Other women like the excitement, thrills, and sense of danger bad boys bring. This is especially true for those who have been “good girls” all their lives. Perhaps they grew up in a family that demanded conformity and compliance with rules. So they’re intrigued with men who scoff at rules and shrug off responsibility.

5.       The Nice Guys are Boooooring.

If you ever ask why the bad boys get the good girls, the first and most obvious answer from anyone would be that the nice guys are boring. Sadly, this is true, and the nice guys will rarely claim otherwise, apart from those who are in denial. What works against nice guys and bores girls to death is when they try to flirt like 12-year-olds, by treating women as if they are fragile china and complaining about how unfair men are towards women. Women find a man who is willing to go out of his way to sound polite, play fair, or give up his interests to adopt theirs boring in every sense, which is exactly what nice guys think women want. However, a man who has the respect of other men, is busy on his life’s mission, is confident, and is famous for breaking many women’s hearts fascinates women.

6.       Sucker for Drama

If you grew up in a family where drama and chaos were the norm, living with the drama that swirls around a bad boy feels normal to you. It can also feel exciting, dangerous, or like you’re on a great adventure, because often these bad boys skirt the boundaries of criminal, and on some level, living on the edge of danger is an adrenaline rush.

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